Overview of Chapter: Matthew 19 presents Jesus’ authoritative teaching on marriage and divorce in light of God’s original design, his wise acknowledgment of human hardness of heart, and his call to integrity in the Kingdom of Heaven. The chapter then highlights Jesus’ welcome of little children as fitting heirs of the Kingdom, exposes the spiritual peril of trusting riches through the encounter with the rich young man, and clarifies that salvation is ultimately God’s work even as disciples are genuinely called to follow. Finally, Jesus promises future vindication and reward to those who leave all for his name’s sake, while warning that Kingdom honor often reverses worldly rank.
Verses 1-2: The Kingdom’s Compassionate Presence
1 When Jesus had finished these words, he departed from Galilee, and came into the borders of Judea beyond the Jordan. 2 Great multitudes followed him, and he healed them there.
- Jesus’ ministry reveals God’s compassionate nearness to those who follow:
The movement of Jesus into Judea and the response of “great multitudes” frames discipleship as real pursuit of Christ, and his healing work shows that God’s reign is not merely an idea but arrives with mercy toward human need. Theologically, this grounds faith in the person and work of Jesus: he draws people, and he truly helps them, displaying the character of God as present and active among his people.
Verses 3-9: Marriage, Divorce, and the Creator’s Design
3 Pharisees came to him, testing him, and saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?” 4 He answered, “Haven’t you read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, 5 and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?’ 6 So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart.” 7 They asked him, “Why then did Moses command us to give her a certificate of divorce, and divorce her?” 8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it has not been so. 9 I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.”
- God’s original intent defines marriage as a lifelong one-flesh union:
Jesus grounds marriage not in shifting social custom but in creation—“from the beginning”—and he identifies the marital bond as God’s joining of two into “one flesh.” Theologically, this establishes marriage as covenantal, public, and spiritually weighty: it is not merely a private contract but a union under God’s authority, which is why Jesus warns, “don’t let man tear apart.”
- Scripture must be read with attention to God’s ideal, not only human accommodations:
Jesus answers a legal question by appealing first to what is written and intended in creation, then explaining that certain permissions in the law addressed “hardness of your hearts.” This teaches that some biblical commands function as concessions to human sinfulness in a fallen world, while the Creator’s design remains the guiding norm for faithful living.
- Divorce and remarriage carry moral gravity, and sexual immorality uniquely violates the one-flesh bond:
Jesus’ warning about adultery underscores that dissolving a marriage is not a morally neutral action, because the marriage bond remains meaningful before God. At the same time, the stated exception “except for sexual immorality” recognizes that certain sins rupture marital faithfulness in a distinctive way, shaping how the community must approach pastoral care with both truth and mercy.
- The Church seeks faithfulness to Jesus’ words while also applying the wider scriptural witness with pastoral wisdom:
While Matthew 19:9 names “sexual immorality” in Jesus’ direct answer here, the New Testament also speaks pastorally to other grievous marital ruptures. Because Scripture calls believers to uphold the sanctity of marriage and to care for the abandoned and wounded, historic Christian communities have wrestled with how to apply the full biblical teaching in cases such as separation, civil divorce, and questions of remarriage—seeking neither to weaken Jesus’ warning nor to withhold mercy from those harmed by another’s serious sin.
Verses 10-12: Singleness, Calling, and Gift
10 His disciples said to him, “If this is the case of the man with his wife, it is not expedient to marry.” 11 But he said to them, “Not all men can receive this saying, but those to whom it is given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother’s womb, and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and there are eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the Kingdom of Heaven’s sake. He who is able to receive it, let him receive it.”
- Both marriage and celibacy are serious vocations under God’s providence:
Jesus neither dismisses the disciples’ concern nor makes celibacy a universal rule. Instead, he teaches discernment: some can receive the call and some cannot, because such capacity is “given.” Theologically, this honors different paths of discipleship—marriage as a creation blessing and celibacy as a Kingdom-oriented devotion—without ranking worth by marital status.
- Grace enables genuine response, and responsibility remains real:
Jesus holds together divine initiative (“to whom it is given”) with human reception (“let him receive it”). This balance supports a shared Christian conviction across traditions: God must supply enabling grace, and yet persons are truly addressed and summoned to embrace what they are able to receive in obedience.
Verses 13-15: The Welcome of Children and the Shape of the Kingdom
13 Then little children were brought to him, that he should lay his hands on them and pray; and the disciples rebuked them. 14 But Jesus said, “Allow the little children, and don’t forbid them to come to me; for the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to ones like these.” 15 He laid his hands on them, and departed from there.
- The Kingdom belongs to the humble and receptive, not the self-important:
Jesus corrects the disciples’ instinct to restrict access and identifies children as fitting examples of Kingdom-receptivity. Theologically, this teaches that God’s reign is received with dependence and trust rather than earned by status; it also reinforces the Church’s calling to welcome the vulnerable and to remove obstacles that keep people from coming to Christ.
- Jesus blesses with embodied care—prayer, touch, and presence:
That Jesus “laid his hands on them and pray[ed]” highlights that God’s blessing is personal and relational, not merely conceptual. Across historic Christian communities, this supports a theology of pastoral ministry that is both word-centered and compassionately attentive to persons.
Verses 16-22: The Rich Young Man and the Exposure of the Heart
16 Behold, one came to him and said, “Good teacher, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life?” 17 He said to him, “Why do you call me good? No one is good but one, that is, God. But if you want to enter into life, keep the commandments.” 18 He said to him, “Which ones?” Jesus said, “ ‘You shall not murder.’ ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ ‘You shall not steal.’ ‘You shall not offer false testimony.’ 19 ‘Honor your father and your mother.’ And, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ ” 20 The young man said to him, “All these things I have observed from my youth. What do I still lack?” 21 Jesus said to him, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have, and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.” 22 But when the young man heard the saying, he went away sad, for he was one who had great possessions.
- Eternal life cannot be reduced to a checklist of “good things” apart from God:
The question “what good thing shall I do” receives a response that re-centers goodness in God: “No one is good but one, that is, God.” Theologically, Jesus confronts the tendency toward self-justification and teaches that moral “doing” must be understood under God’s holiness, not as a means of self-made life.
- God’s commandments reveal both true duty and the heart’s hidden attachments:
Jesus names concrete commandments and then, when the man claims lifelong observance, presses deeper with a call that touches the man’s wealth. This shows that obedience is not only external compliance but wholehearted love—freedom from rival masters. The “one who had great possessions” is exposed as still lacking because something else competes with devotion to Christ.
- Discipleship includes costly surrender and concrete love for the poor:
Jesus’ directive—sell, give, and follow—ties devotion to him with generosity toward the needy. Theologically, this demonstrates that following Jesus reshapes how believers view possessions: treasure in heaven is not merely future reward but a reordering of values now, expressed in sacrificial mercy.
- Jesus’ call is genuine, and humans can tragically refuse it:
The man’s sorrowful departure shows a real encounter with Christ that ends in refusal. This warns the Church that nearness to Jesus’ teaching does not guarantee surrender, and it summons believers to examine where wealth, comfort, or identity might keep them from “follow me.”
Verses 23-26: The Impossibility of Self-Salvation and God’s Power
23 Jesus said to his disciples, “Most certainly I say to you, a rich man will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven with difficulty. 24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through a needle’s eye, than for a rich man to enter into God’s Kingdom.” 25 When the disciples heard it, they were exceedingly astonished, saying, “Who then can be saved?” 26 Looking at them, Jesus said, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”
- Wealth can obstruct the Kingdom by fostering false security:
Jesus does not say the rich cannot be saved, but that entry is “with difficulty,” using vivid imagery to show how riches can bind the heart. Theologically, this is a warning against idolatry and self-sufficiency: money can make dependence on God feel unnecessary, which is precisely the posture the Kingdom overturns.
- Salvation is beyond human power and must be accomplished by God:
The disciples’ question “Who then can be saved?” is answered with a decisive principle: “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” This safeguards the faith from any view that treats salvation as a human achievement; it is God’s work from beginning to end, while still calling persons into real discipleship and trust.
Verses 27-30: Costly Following, Future Vindication, and the Great Reversal
27 Then Peter answered, “Behold, we have left everything, and followed you. What then will we have?” 28 Jesus said to them, “Most certainly I tell you that you who have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of Man will sit on the throne of his glory, you also will sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 29 Everyone who has left houses, or brothers, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name’s sake, will receive one hundred times, and will inherit eternal life. 30 But many will be last who are first; and first who are last.
- Jesus dignifies sacrifice for his name and promises real reward:
Peter’s question is met with assurance: those who have “left everything” are not forgotten. Jesus promises future participation in his reign “in the regeneration” and declares that costly loyalty “for my name’s sake” will be met with abundant recompense and “will inherit eternal life.” Theologically, reward is not payment for merit but God’s faithful generosity to those united to Christ in persevering discipleship.
- Discipleship is not detached from eternal consequences, yet God remains the giver of the inheritance:
Jesus speaks in the language of real promise—those who leave all “will inherit eternal life”—which underscores that present faithfulness matters and that discipleship is not mere sentiment. At the same time, the language of “inherit” keeps hope anchored in God’s gracious gift rather than human self-achievement: believers follow, suffer, and persevere, and God faithfully brings his people to the promised end.
- Hope is anchored in Christ’s future enthronement and the coming renewal:
Jesus places discipleship within a forward-looking horizon: “when the Son of Man will sit on the throne of his glory.” This teaches that Christian endurance is sustained by eschatological hope—history is moving toward Christ’s manifest reign, where justice, restoration, and vindication are secured in him.
- Kingdom honor often reverses worldly status and expectations:
The final saying—“many will be last who are first; and first who are last”—warns against triumphalism and entitlement. Theologically, it confronts pride in privilege (whether wealth, religious standing, or perceived spiritual achievement) and comforts the lowly: God’s evaluation is righteous and often surprising, reshaping how believers pursue humility and service.
Conclusion: Matthew 19 teaches that God’s Kingdom restores creation’s moral order while addressing human brokenness with both truth and mercy. Jesus upholds marriage as God’s joining, calls some to Kingdom-focused singleness, welcomes children as models of receptive faith, exposes the spiritual danger of clinging to wealth, and anchors salvation in God’s own power. He then strengthens disciples with promises of future renewal and reward, while warning that God’s final reckoning will overturn many human assumptions about who is greatest.
Overview of Chapter: In Matthew 19, Jesus teaches about marriage and divorce by pointing back to God’s plan “from the beginning.” He also talks about singleness, and he welcomes little children to come to him. Then Jesus meets a rich young man and shows that following him can be costly. Jesus teaches that people can’t save themselves, but God can do what is impossible. He also promises that God will reward those who leave things behind to follow him, especially when Jesus returns in glory—even if the world doesn’t honor them.
Verses 1-2: Jesus Helps People Who Come to Him
1 When Jesus had finished these words, he departed from Galilee, and came into the borders of Judea beyond the Jordan. 2 Great multitudes followed him, and he healed them there.
- Jesus cares about real needs:
Many people followed Jesus, and he healed them. This shows that Jesus is not only a teacher—he also shows God’s mercy through action.
- Following Jesus is worth it:
The crowds kept coming to him. When we come to Jesus with faith, we learn and grow—and we also meet a Savior who cares.
Verses 3-9: God Made Marriage to Be a Lifelong Promise
3 Pharisees came to him, testing him, and saying, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?” 4 He answered, “Haven’t you read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, 5 and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?’ 6 So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart.” 7 They asked him, “Why then did Moses command us to give her a certificate of divorce, and divorce her?” 8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it has not been so. 9 I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery.”
- God’s plan for marriage is “one flesh”:
Jesus says that God made marriage to join a husband and wife together in a deep, united way. It is not meant to be taken lightly or treated like something easy to break.
- Some laws were given because people’s hearts are hard:
Jesus explains that Moses “allowed” divorce because of human sin and stubbornness. That does not mean divorce was God’s best plan. God’s first plan is faithfulness and lasting love.
- Jesus speaks truth about marriage—and the church must hold truth with compassion:
Jesus warns that divorce and remarriage can involve serious sin because marriage matters to God. At the same time, many people carry deep wounds from broken marriages. The church should honor Jesus’ teaching while caring for the hurting with patience and mercy.
Verses 10-12: Some Are Called to Stay Single for God’s Work
10 His disciples said to him, “If this is the case of the man with his wife, it is not expedient to marry.” 11 But he said to them, “Not all men can receive this saying, but those to whom it is given. 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother’s womb, and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and there are eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the Kingdom of Heaven’s sake. He who is able to receive it, let him receive it.”
- Marriage is not the only way to serve God:
Jesus teaches that some people live without marriage “for the Kingdom of Heaven’s sake.” This can be a faithful life that is fully devoted to God.
- God gives different callings to different people:
Jesus says this is not for everyone, but for those “to whom it is given.” That means we should respect different paths—marriage and singleness—without looking down on anyone.
- We respond to what God gives us:
Jesus says, “He who is able to receive it, let him receive it.” God helps people follow him, and we are still responsible to obey him with the life we have.
Verses 13-15: Jesus Welcomes Children
13 Then little children were brought to him, that he should lay his hands on them and pray; and the disciples rebuked them. 14 But Jesus said, “Allow the little children, and don’t forbid them to come to me; for the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to ones like these.” 15 He laid his hands on them, and departed from there.
- No one is “too small” to come to Jesus:
The disciples tried to stop the children, but Jesus welcomed them. This shows that Jesus wants people to come to him, even those others might ignore.
- God’s kingdom is for the humble:
Jesus says the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to “ones like these.” Children often come with trust and need. God wants us to come to him that way—honest, humble, and ready to receive.
- Jesus blesses people personally:
Jesus laid his hands on the children and prayed. This shows his kindness and care, and it reminds us that God’s love is not distant.
Verses 16-22: A Good Life Isn’t Enough if We Won’t Follow Jesus
16 Behold, one came to him and said, “Good teacher, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life?” 17 He said to him, “Why do you call me good? No one is good but one, that is, God. But if you want to enter into life, keep the commandments.” 18 He said to him, “Which ones?” Jesus said, “ ‘You shall not murder.’ ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ ‘You shall not steal.’ ‘You shall not offer false testimony.’ 19 ‘Honor your father and your mother.’ And, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ ” 20 The young man said to him, “All these things I have observed from my youth. What do I still lack?” 21 Jesus said to him, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have, and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow me.” 22 But when the young man heard the saying, he went away sad, for he was one who had great possessions.
- Only God is truly good, and his commands show what real love looks like:
Jesus points the man to God: “No one is good but one, that is, God.” This helps us see that we do not earn eternal life by being “good enough.” God’s commandments also show what love looks like in everyday life. Faith is not just words—God wants obedience that comes from the heart.
- Jesus goes after what controls our heart:
The man said he kept the commandments, but he still wouldn’t let go of his wealth to follow Jesus. This shows that something can become more important than God, even if we look religious.
- Following Jesus changes what we value right now:
Jesus told the man to give to the poor and follow him. This means real love for those in need—not just a future reward, but a change of heart today. The man walked away sad. This warns us that we can hear Jesus’ call and still refuse it if we hold too tightly to other things.
Verses 23-26: God Can Save People—We Can’t Save Ourselves
23 Jesus said to his disciples, “Most certainly I say to you, a rich man will enter into the Kingdom of Heaven with difficulty. 24 Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through a needle’s eye, than for a rich man to enter into God’s Kingdom.” 25 When the disciples heard it, they were exceedingly astonished, saying, “Who then can be saved?” 26 Looking at them, Jesus said, “With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”
- Money can become a false god:
Jesus warns that riches can make it hard to enter God’s Kingdom. When we feel safe because of wealth, we may stop depending on God. We can end up serving money in our hearts instead of trusting the Lord.
- Salvation is God’s work:
The disciples ask, “Who then can be saved?” Jesus answers that it is impossible for people to do this on their own, but God can do it. This gives hope: God can save anyone who turns to him in faith.
Verses 27-30: Jesus Promises That Following Him Is Worth It
27 Then Peter answered, “Behold, we have left everything, and followed you. What then will we have?” 28 Jesus said to them, “Most certainly I tell you that you who have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of Man will sit on the throne of his glory, you also will sit on twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 29 Everyone who has left houses, or brothers, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name’s sake, will receive one hundred times, and will inherit eternal life. 30 But many will be last who are first; and first who are last.
- Jesus gives hope for the future when he reigns in glory:
Peter asks what they will get for leaving everything. Jesus answers with future hope. He speaks about “the regeneration when the Son of Man will sit on the throne of his glory.” This helps us endure now, because our story is moving toward Christ’s victory.
- Jesus sees what you give up for him:
Jesus promises that God does not forget sacrifices made “for my name’s sake.” God knows what faithfulness costs, even when others do not see it.
- God rewards faithful disciples with life that lasts:
Jesus says those who leave things behind for him “will receive one hundred times, and will inherit eternal life.” God’s reward is both his care in this life and his gift in the life to come.
- God’s honor system is different from the world’s:
Jesus says, “many will be last who are first; and first who are last.” People the world thinks are “important” may not be greatest in God’s eyes. God values humble faith and faithful love.
Conclusion: Matthew 19 teaches us to take God’s ways seriously: marriage is a strong promise, children are welcomed by Jesus, and following Jesus matters more than money or comfort. The chapter also gives hope: even when salvation feels impossible for people, “with God all things are possible.” Jesus calls us to follow him with our whole heart, and he promises reward and joy in God’s future Kingdom, when he reigns in glory.
